| Now if only I can stop giving advice | Now, the Lundbergs address an all too common dilemma that arises when others expect you to solve their problems for them, showing readers how they can shed the no-win role of "fixer" and empower people to solve their own problems through validation--a simple yet profound communication tool that is essential to any healthy relationship |
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| It helped me so much in dealing with my mother, who has borderline personality disorder, that I have purchased it 3 additional times for others that are faced with similar relationships as mine | Vielleicht ist das nötig damit eingeschliffene, ungesunde Gewohnheiten hinterfragt und verändert werden können |
Their focus thus becomes clouded with money, power, arrogance, and greed; their attitude towards others is of indifference, believing all other humans beings along with every other form of life exist solely to make them materialistically superior, and nothing else.
27| Over on atheist board, someone recently posted the question: "Could somebody please explain the term 'objective reality' to me? And it works for everyone | I heard myself tell thousand lies I got no time, I really got no time I heard myself even fucking apologize I got no time, sorry I got no time What I have really meant was you were not worth my while A social nicety of a despicable style This honesty might seem unfair But I got no extra life to spare Not that you care I make no excuse Not sorry to go I've got no time to waste on you Hunting for more and more and more amounts to less Still the pressure's on, the pressure is still on |
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| Insecurity is building up So much its already too late |
I guess I will just go I've been waiting the whole night For you to make up your mind It's ok, I really have no right To expect anything at all I just misunderstood I thought you cared That's all You said I would have been Your plan B Not sure if that's at all Not sure if that's at all comforting to me I guess it makes it even worse Cause "second best" Means too close A lethal dose Just second best A cut below the rest Well there could be Just one for you And that's for sure Not gonna be And that's for sure Not gonna be Not gonna be me Of course No I could deal with, Rejection and defeat But getting yes and no Both at the same time is Making my mind bleed I wanted to give it all And I am not saying I don't care now But I just want myself To never want nothing with you I just wanted you to know So you've built your wall from all your anger, fear and hate, locked yourself in.
17| Together with his wife, writer, speaker, lyricist and poet Joy Saunders Lundberg, they co-host a weekly radio show on relationships Morning with the Lundbergs and present seminars and workshops around the country | Gary Lundberg is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice |
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| No more need to control our kids emotions | This book can benefit just about anyone |